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Day 31 :: Le Finale

Monday, October 31st, 2011

We’ve done it. Somehow, we’ve managed to talk about courage for a full 31 days.

And I. Have. Loved. It.

There is so much left to say, so much left for me to learn from you, so many more verses and Bible stories to discuss. Stick around… I don’t think we’re quite done with this topic yet. [Though I will be happy to focus on something different in November... like leaving Edinburgh. Weird.]

Speaking of Edinburgh, here’s something I forgot to tell you. In that little 31 Days of Courage button over there…. the grey pixelated background you see? That’s a map of Edinburgh. I thought that was a cool thing to build my courage button over.

I don’t know about you, but this month has been really great and terribly hard. I didn’t expect this series to cause the kind of stir in the spiritual atmosphere that I’ve been experiencing. I mean, I’m sure it is a bunch of factors [including being on the front lines of a church plant in Edinburgh], but having all of you considering courage is a major thing and I think the battle for your hearts is a major battle. And a worthy battle it is.

Because if we all choose to embrace courage in our every day lives, we will change the atmosphere of the world in which we live.

And that, my friend, is no small thing.

So what now?

Now you have to be brave. Now you have to do that thing that you are scared to do. Or say that yes that makes your heart feel like it will burst out of your chest. Or say no because you know it is the right thing to do. It’s time to go or it’s time to buckle down and stay. Remember, it doesn’t have to be extreme [but it can be!]. Courage is simple and daily and yet, it changes everything.

It’s time to be a people who may hear the whispers of fear, but we don’t listen to them. Instead, we choose the braver voice in our ears.

In one year, October 31, 2012, I’m going to ask for your story of courage, the simple and profound moments that shaped you. I wonder how our lives will be different then…

And, if you would permit, I’d like to end this month praying for you.

Father,

Thank You for these friends who stop by here every day. I am beyond grateful that You have created a place where we all share our thoughts and a place where we can challenge each other. God, my heart is to see this community really embrace a courageous lifestyle. I know everyone’s story will be different, but I pray that You would speak to each heart individually and show them their path of courage. I pray that lives all around us would begin to be influenced by our moments of simple bravery. And I pray, above all else, that You would be glorified in our courage. It’s all for You.   … Amen.

Day 30 :: Hide them in your heart.

Sunday, October 30th, 2011

Yesterday, I listed for you a few of my favorite resources in the courage department. And I would be remiss if I didn’t share a few resources from the Bible.

The greatest reminders to be brave can be found on page after page of the Bible.

We already talked about some brave Bible characters:
Jesus
David
Queen Esther
Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego

You could also read up on Peter, the disciples, Gideon [as Jules mentioned], Noah, Caleb, John, Rahab, Paul, or Ruth… just to name a few. There are many. Tons. Legion. Masses. It’s what I love about the Bible- it constantly reminds us of the variety of people God can use and the variety of ways courage can be displayed.

Looking through my journal and Bible and using BibleGateway.com, I’ve made a short list of verses that speak of a lifestyle of courage. If you are on a journey toward a life of greater courage, why don’t you pick one or two to memorize? These are some of my absolute favorites.

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“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” – Deuteronomy 31:6

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” – Joshua 1:9

“You, my God, have revealed to your servant that you will build a house for him. So your servant has found courage to pray to You.” – 1 Chronicles 17:25  [Courage to pray? We talked about that.]

“Be strong, and let us fight bravely for our people and the cities of our God. The Lord will do what is good in his sight.” – 1 Chronicles 19:13

“When I called, You answered me; You made me bold and stouthearted.” – Psalm 138:3

“The wicked man flees though no one pursues, but the righteous are as bold as a lion.” – Proverbs 28:1

“When they saw the courage of Peter and John and realized that they were unschooled, ordinary men, they were astonished and they took note that these men had been with Jesus.” – Acts 4:13

“One night the Lord spoke to Paul in a vision: ‘Do not be afraid; keep on speaking, do not be silent.’” – Acts 18:9

“Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong.” – 1 Corinthians 16:13

“I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that now as always Christ will be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death.” -Philippians 1:20

“Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.” – Hebrews 4:16

[It is taking all the willpower I can muster up in my soul not to write a paragraph about each of these verses. So. You're welcome for keeping this below 5000 words. :) ]

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Is there a favorite brave Bible character I forgot to mention? Or do you have a verse that reminds you to be courageous that isn’t in this list?

Day 29 :: Resources

Saturday, October 29th, 2011

The month has all too quickly ticked away. Just like that, we have woven our way through 28 days of courageous stories and moments. I am a changed girl. Your comments and thoughts and emails have blessed me in ways you will never know. And somehow I feel like we are just getting started…

Hopefully these won’t be our last brave conversations. And I pray that some of these truths have stuck solidly to your heart.

As the month ends, I wanted to share with you some great resources / links / ideas to help you continue to down this path and make sure you’ve got all the discount codes together in one place [in case you wanna do some last minute shopping before the 31st].

To Read

Waking the Dead by John Eldredge
Path of Loneliness by Elizabeth Elliot
A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller
Mr. Gary’s 31 days of scary hope  [I've cried. Twice.]
A Chance to Die by Elizabeth Elliot
The Dip by Seth Godin
The War of Art by Steven Pressfield
The Rabbit Room

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To Hear

Songs that make me feel brave [and the comments are amazing]
Circuit Riders Podcast

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Discounts & BIG THANKS

SweetAftonStudio :: 10% off using the code ANNIEBLOGS2011 until Oct 31

Bit O Whimsey :: 10% off using the code ANNIEBLOGS2011 until Oct 31

Printable Scripture :: 31% off using the code ANNIEBLOGS2011 until Oct 31

Artsyville :: 10% off using the code ANNIEBLOGS2011 until Oct 31

Considering Lilies [today's giveaway!] :: 20% off using the code courage20 until Nov 5

Also thanks to GloryHaus and SignedbyAnge for the giveaways and thanks to The Nester for planting this idea in my head and giving my the encouragement to actually do it.

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Where you can find Annie

Annie’s book

Annie’s facebook

Annie’s twitter

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For our final giveaway, sweet Kate at Considering Lilies is offering an 8×10 of this print to one lucky AnnieBlogs reader [as well as the discount listed above for, well, the rest of us].

I think this print is a PERFECT way to end the month, don’t you?

All you have to do to enter the giveaway is leave a comment [with a working email address] and answer this question:

What have you learned this month about courage?

Also, if you have more resource ideas, leave that in the comments as well! Great music, great books, great movies, great products… whatever might help us in our quest to be brave- share on!

You can actually enter this giveaway TWICE – once to leave a comment and a second one saying that you liked the Considering Lilies facebook page.

You have until I wake up Monday morning [around 8am Scotland time, 3am EDT, 2am CDT, midnight PDT] to enter.

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Thank you so much. This month has been a gift to me. I’m so grateful that we were on this journey together.

Day 28 :: Single

Friday, October 28th, 2011

As most of you know, we like to do Top 5 Fridays around here… where we talk about one topic and list five of our favorite things. And so we shall today, this our last Friday in October.

Newsflash: I’m single. And I’m 31.

But those two facts don’t scare me. They are what they are- truth for today. But they won’t be true forever. I can’t help but turn 32 in 2012 and I hope and pray and think I’ll be married someday.

I believe that God’s telling a story with my life that I hope includes a cool husband and kids and we’ll be a family that makes waves for the Kingdom. For some reason, part of that story involves me being single SIGNIFICANTLY LONGER THAN I EVER PLANNED.

Ahem.

Of all the things going on in my life, this takes the most courage: believing God for my future, trusting God’s heart for me, and walking daily in the joy of my current relationship status.

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So for today’s Top 5 Friday, let’s talk about five ways to be courageously single.

1. Have fun.

Listen. I get it. It isn’t always easy to be single. Whether you are 14 or 41, it can feel hard. But there are tons of advantages to being single- financially, time commitment-wise, even laundry-wise. :) So have fun! Enjoy this time. Go somewhere new. Spend your money [wisely] on things you care about. Have a great time with your friends. I am sure marriage is fun- I don’t doubt that- but we singlets are a bit more carefree and limitless. Revel in that while you can.

2. Be thankful.

Well done, you. You are single because you are waiting for the right human to come alongside you. Be thankful for every regret you don’t have and be thankful for the forgiveness given for the rest of it. Be thankful that God knows what is going on and you are never far from His thoughts. Be thankful for every selfish day you get to live. 

[Example: I hate olives. I don't have to eat them or cook with them. My husband may love them. I will compromise... maybe. But for now, I don't have to touch the suckers. And I am grateful.]

Life is far more enjoyable if you will focus, and be grateful for, the good things you DO have instead of focusing on the things you DON’T have. Brave people are thankful people.

3. Work on you.

I know it is a bit cliche, but I don’t care. It is important that you become the kind of person that you want to marry. You see, I want to marry someone who is brave, a man who is willing to take God-spoken risks for the sake of the Gospel. I want to marry someone who is generous with his time and money. I want to marry someone who is committed to personal growth and maturity. So I pursue those things as well.

Do you want a spouse who is courageous? Then grow in courage.

4. Pray.

If God could get tired of a person praying about a particular situation, then my single self would have exhausted Him by now. But He doesn’t. But sometimes I get insecure that He does. And then I’m reminded that Hebrews 4 says I can approach the throne of grace with confidence [as often as I want]. It takes courage to ask for something over and over again. It’s vulnerable every time.

SO DO IT.

[See? It's growing your prayer life AND making you brave. Like a combo meal, if you will. :) ]

5. Live

The worst thing we can do, as singles, is decide to to sit at home and wait to live exciting lives once we are married. There are a few things that should wait for marriage [don't make me say it], but LIVING isn’t one of them. Go. Do. Be. LIVE. You don’t want a spouse who has sat around for years doing nothing… so don’t be that guy either. Be brave. Make brave choices. Love your life. You only get to live today one time.

You know what brave people do? Brave people look at the situation they are in and figure out how to get the most out of it.

So do that.

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YOUR TURN!

What tips would give for those trying to live courageously single?

Day 27 :: Fill in the blank

Thursday, October 27th, 2011

Today is your day.

I just want you to fill in the blank. You’ve heard me talk for 27 days about courage. Now I want to hear you and I want the rest of our sweet community to hear you. Even if you’ve never commented before, maybe today is the day to be brave. Take a step of courage. Just simply finish this sentence…..

One sentence, ten sentences, one word. I don’t care. No rules here, people. I just want to hear what courage is to you.

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Ange at SignedByAnge is offering one of these beautiful keys to courage to one lucky commenter. So all you have to do is fill in the blank “courage is…” and you’ll be entered! I’ll use random number generator to pick a winner from the comments when I wake up Saturday morning [around 8am Scotland time, 3am EDT, 2am CDT, midnight PDT].

Go ahead. Let’s hear ya. Courage is…

Day 26 :: Edinburgh [+ a giveaway!]

Wednesday, October 26th, 2011

I’ve known I would live in Edinburgh since May of 2000.

Yep. It took me 11 years to get here.

I left Scotland on May 28, 2000, went back to the US, led a small group, graduated college, taught 5th grade, coached soccer and volleyball, worked at a campus ministry, taught 4th grade, volunteered in a youth group, bought a house, sold a house, wrote a book, and moved to Nashville [not in that order and with a few other things sprinkled in between].

I tell you that to say that courage doesn’t come in a day. It took time between when the dream was placed in my heart and when God made it my reality. It took time and steps and smaller choices.

For example.

The summer after 10th grade, I felt the Lord ask me to change high schools. At the time, it was the hugest sacrifice in the WORLD. I had to leave my friends and go alone to a new high school.

The summer after 12th grade, I moved 80 miles away from home. It was terribly hard. I had to leave my hometown and my family.

The summer of 2008, I moved 200 miles away from home. As you know, it was the best heartbreak of my life. I left my family, my friends, my hometown.

God has given me stair-step opportunities to be brave – moving schools, moving cities in Georgia, moving out of Georgia. So then, when it was time to move out of America, I knew I could do it.

I have seen, over and over and over again, that I can trust God and go in His direction, even when it seems crazy and looks crazy and hurts like crazy.

And now I’m here. Edinburgh, Scotland. It’s a beautiful place to be.

But a lot of days, it is really hard.

I mean, I love it. I really do. I love this city and the people and the church and my friends and the coins and the bus routes. But don’t mistake the fun stories and the amazing ministry opportunities to mean that it has been easy.

I miss home. A lot. I miss my parents and my sisters and my friends. I cry every time I miss a wedding. I’ve gotten frustrated that I can’t watch the Georgia Bulldog games. And I get surprisingly furious in the grocery store when I can’t find an ingredient [exposing issues? Me thinks yes].

But.

In the moments like today – when I’m sitting across the Starbucks table from an American student and talking about faith and courage and living in a foreign country and God- I know it is all worth it.

I wouldn’t dare tell you this season overseas has been easy. It has been fun and exciting and rewarding, but “easy” it is not.

Nevertheless, I am grateful. I am so glad that my courage boundaries were blown to bits. I’m glad for the hard days, where I’ve wanted to scream with frustration or cry or check for a flight home. Those days exposed my fears. And when I see my fears, I’m reminded that I’m brave. Because I see them, I hear them, I acknowledge them, but I don’t listen to or obey them [most of the time].

Edinburgh has taught me that living courageously doesn’t always feel good, but it always feels right.

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Krystal at SweetAftonStudio is wanting you to live courageously too. So one lucky reader out there will win one of the 8×10 letterpress prints- your choice of color!

[these are smaller versions... but YOU get an 8x10!]

For the rest of us almost-winners, Krystal is offering 10% off your purchase at SweetAftonStudio – just use the code ANNIEBLOGS2011… and that’s good until October 31! I adore her stuff… I think you will too.

All you have to do to enter the giveaway is leave a comment [with a working email address] and answer this question:

If you could move to any city in the world, where would you go?

You have until I wake up Friday morning [around 8am Scotland time, 3am EDT, 2am CDT, midnight PDT] to enter.

Now, let the parade of cities begin…. :)

Day 25 :: Tatum is brave.

Tuesday, October 25th, 2011

Today for 31 Days of Courage, my sister Tatum is sharing about her super brave life. As in, she’s brave. I’m not. If you’ve ever considered a life of full time missions, she’s your girl.

Tatum, take it away.

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When Annie asked me to write a post about courage, I thought to myself “I don’t really have anything to write about that…I’m not particularly brave…my life has been easy and awesome…my courage hasn’t been tested.” But the longer I thought about it, I realized two huge, amazing reasons why I don’t feel brave. So I guess I’ll write about those.

If you look at my life, there are some situations that people would think required courage. God radically changed my life when I was 12, and since then the only job I could imagine for my future was being a missionary. I’ve had the privilege of pursuing that dream since I graduated high school. A big part of that pursuit has been working with YWAM (Youth With A Mission) periodically since 2000 then full time since 2008. I’ve had quite a few adventures since then that might look brave:

2 months in India as a 19 year-old (before digital cameras…sorry)

over a year in Ghana

traveling around Asia (mostly by myself…meeting up with people in different locations)

 

and 2 months in Vietnam.

But here are the reasons I don’t feel brave.

1. My people. I have never known what it feels like to NOT be supported. (I know that’s a double negative, but stick with me here.) For my entire life, I have been surrounded by people who know how to love and encourage well. People who have believed that God had an awesome plan for my life, and loved me enough to push me toward Him. Parents who have allowed and even encouraged me to follow the Lord even when that meant me living far away and not having the life they envisioned for me.

2. The biggest reason: my amazing God. We have a Heavenly Father who cares more about us than we can ever imagine. Jesus loves us SOOOO much that He left His home and His Father (we can’t fathom that sacrifice!) and suffered here on Earth, dying a humiliating death…all so that He could defeat death and sin in order to have relationship with us again. So what do I have to be afraid of? He’s already taken care of the danger and pain, and He’s proven that His love for me is greater than any risk I could ever face. Our Heavenly Father is all-powerful, all-knowing, just, righteous, and good. He IS love. So even if a situation seems scary or looks painful, we have a wonderful Father that we can trust to take care of us. And even when a situation does hurt, we can trust that He is hurting with us, that He sees the bigger, eternal picture, and that His plan is greater than our minds can comprehend.

I turned 30 last week. [Thirty, flirty and thriving! Right? Anyone? 13 Going On 30? No? Ok.] I know that my life is all about missions, but I have no idea where I’ll be living or exactly what I’ll be doing after February. Here is what I do know: I have an awesome Father in Heaven. And it is an honor to walk through these unknowns with Him, following His lead, and experiencing His gracious love. When I start to feel the fear creep in, I remind myself of who our great God is and how He loves me. And I lean into trusting Him more.

On the outside it looks like courage..on the inside it is choosing to trust the Lord of all creation.

It doesn’t feel so brave when I think of it like that.

Day 24 :: Eternal impact.

Monday, October 24th, 2011

Courage isn’t a complicated topic to write about. I mean, we all desire to be courageous and we all respect people that we think are brave.

But living life courageously is quite another thing.

As mentioned way back on Day 3, a lack of courage is nothing more than a lack of understanding. If you are afraid to be brave, you have forgotten one of these things:

  1. Who you are. [That was Day 8.]
  2. Who loves you. [That was Day 17.]
  3. The eternal impact you can make on this world. [That's today!]

Staying in Prague this weekend, I have watched my friends live a pretty brave life. A country that doesn’t speak English + one car + two toddlers = courage aboundeth. But I also think about my best friends living in Marietta. They are raising two toddlers each as well, and I think that takes a lot of bravery to stay home and work 24/7 to create an environment where Godly children can flourish.

Here’s what. My friends in Prague, moms in Marietta, Dave writing music, Lois making wise choices, and Queen Esther all have one thing in common. Their courageous choices are making an eternal impact.

It’s not a complicated concept. It’s just a hard one to remember. It’s not a pressure-filled concept, either. It’s just a reality.  The decisions you make don’t just affect you. Think about siblings. The older brother jumps off the second wooden step onto the cement sidewalk. The younger brother sees and thinks, “I can do that too.” And somehow, he does. The same thing happens all the time- I see someone else write a book, I think I can do it. I see someone else run a half-marathon, I think I can do it. I see someone else move to a foreign country, I think I can do it.

I see someone else trust God for finances, for a husband, for a job, for friends, for a future and I think, “then I will trust Him too.”

If I can watch you be brave in your world, then I can be brave in mine.

I have lots of hopes and dreams about this season in Edinburgh. But one of the top things I hope so much is that others will now be brave enough to serve God across the world. See, I watched someone else do it. I saw their courage and I saw that they survived :) . They made an eternal impact on me. And everyone who reads these words or somehow chooses courage because of my life, they are a ripple effect of the people who impacted me.

We are eternal beings with eternal futures and we have the opportunity, here on this temporal Earth, to make an eternal impact.

Whether that is in your job, your family, or your mission field- its time to be brave. It’s time to realize that people are watching. It’s time to make the kind of eternal impact that will create a culture of courage.

I know this post feels serious and bossy [and long], but I must confess that I feel pretty passionate about this. We cannot keep living like our lives are just about us. They aren’t. 

I don’t know what this looks like for you. I wouldn’t dare to guess. Maybe you don’t know either, and that’s okay. Ask God. Just ask. Just ask God for opportunities to be courageous and make an eternal impact and He will give them. I promise.

Be brave in your world and watch as that ripples through your community. 

Day 23 :: Queen Esther

Sunday, October 23rd, 2011

All hail the Queen.

I love the book of Esther. It’s a fairly short read, I highly recommend it. It’s an amazing story of sacrifice and courage starring this one young girl. Or one little vegetable, as the case may be. :)

I wish we could watch the whole episode together and just chat about it. Veggie Tales does this thang where they make Bible stories super easy to understand and talk about. Especially for us simple-minded folk – meaning me.

Here’s a quick overly-simple explanation of the story of Esther.

King Xerxes is married to Queen Vashti.

Queen Vashti angers him and in a drunken rage, he sends her away forever.

So he sends some of his dudes on a search throughout the land for a new queen. And they collect up lots o’ pretty girls and bring them back to the King’s palace. One of these girls is a young Jewish gal called Esther. She’s gorgie-poo and super sweet and lovely. Her uncle, who is like a father to her, Mordecai, works at the palace. So he checks on her a lot during the months of beauty treatments before she meets the King.

[I told you this was a simple retelling. Just hang with me. Or read the book yourself. Or both. :) ]

King Xerxes loved her and makes her Queen. Bam. He doesn’t know she’s a Jew, and she doesn’t tell.

Soon, one of the King’s top guys, Haman, comes up with a plot to kill all the Jews in the land. And Mordecai hears and tells Esther that she must save her people.

Here comes the courage part…. as if the whole becoming Queen process wasn’t courageous enough.

It was totally illegal for Esther to approach the King. It was also illegal, thanks to Haman’s new No Jews Allowed thing, to be Jewish.

So when Mordecai said that Esther had to stop this plot and save the Jewish people by talking to the King, she originally said no thanks. [I like this girl. I like her so much.]

Then Mordecai sent her this note:

He sent back this answer: “Do not think that because you are in the king’s house you alone of all the Jews will escape. For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father’s family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to royal position for such a time as this?” (Esther 4)

My friend Melissa, one of the missionaries in Prague, and I were talking about this exact section of scripture. Can you imagine God giving you a chance to be courageous and you turn it down, knowing that He will find someone else to do it? I would never want that. I’m sure I’ve done it before, but it breaks my heart to think that my NO to God caused Him to offer my courageous choice to someone else.

You really should read the rest of the story. It doesn’t get much more dramatic and suspenseful and amazing than this.

Spoiler: Her courage pays off. Big time. [Just like courage still pays off today.]

I want to be like Esther. I want to proudly stand in the positions the Lord has given me and act courageous right there. It’s not about being the Queen. It’s about being brave right where you are.

We have to know that God has placed us HERE for such a time as this. You are not an accident. You were made on purpose and placed right where you are to be brave and bring Him glory.

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Where have you been placed for such a time as this?

Day 22 :: The success side of courage.

Saturday, October 22nd, 2011

FYI. I am in Prague. Three of my best pals from my time at the Wesley Foundation in Athens are missionaries here. And I figured this is probably the best time to get to see their digs. SUCH a beautiful city! Have you been here? Anything I MUST see?

Meanwhile, back at the ranch [meaning America], this week has been very exciting for a couple of my friends. So I’ve shoved aside the scheduled post about courage to give you another post about courage.

That works out nicely.

Here’s the thing about Nashville. It’s full of good artists. And brave people. And brave artists.

You watch people work and work and work. Make art day after day. Write lyrics that are so raw and honest that they make you cringe. Sing past their easy place. Eat Ramen noodles and go on low attended tours. I’m telling ya, there are people all over that town who have spent their lives like this. Being brave as an artist [writer, actor, singer, etc] over and over and honestly, it rarely pays off.

But I have two stories to tell you today to remind you BE BRAVE. Because sometimes, you win big.

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#1. Dave Barnes

Dave has been a singer/songwriter a long time. But this week marks a monumental moment.

Dave wrote the NUMBER ONE SONG IN COUNTRY MUSIC! And then he did a great thing by writing a blog post explaining songwriters and singers and how AMAZING this is that Blake recorded his song and took it to #1. Listen to the lyrics of God Gave Me You and you will hear courage woven throughout. It’s an amazing song… no wonder it is #1.

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2. Mike Hobert

You may remember Mike – he screened a movie in Nashville that we all LOVED. He’s lived in LA for a long time, worked really hard, tried and tried again to get a break, and it has finally come.

Mike and his brother have created a TV show that got picked up by NBC. I’ll be sure to let you know when it is actually going to be on your television. But for now, this is terribly exciting.

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So what am I saying today about courage? Courage means hard work. Courage means don’t quit. Sure, not many of our lives will involve having a #1 country song or being on NBC, but I think these are two amazing examples of men who were brave enough to do what their hearts wanted to do.

And on the stage of their lives, we are able to watch that courage pay off. I, for one, am grateful, because I am encouraged to keep being brave and trying hard and putting my art into the world.

On the success side of courage, it all seems worth it.